2021.12.06 20:52 epicredditor888 im legit gonna be forever alone
all my efforts in making genuine friends over the past 2 years have ultimately failed and lead me to become even more socially anxious. i have less than 6 months left of secondary school before i start college which will not give me any time for any sort of social life at all for another 2 years. then its wagecucking for the rest of my life to make up from being a social cripple, and theres no way ill magically be able to find someone when im older like people say i will
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2021.12.06 20:52 Rhogahn My first recorded perfection, and on big team battle at that. Also sorry for the discord conversation LMAO.
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2021.12.06 20:52 throwaway_5411 How can I [F/40] help my husband [M/40] come to terms with his life of semi-retirement/unemployment?
Before a few years ago, my husband had never been unemployed in his life. He is quite brilliant and go his first job right out of school working with someone a professor knew. That employer actually helped him get a better job, and the next employer did the same when a better opportunity came my husband's way. In all, he had four pretty good jobs in a row over 15+ years or so and never really had to apply because his connections, recommendations, and word of mouth put the jobs in his path and got him in the door. He always did well once he got there. (All of these were contract positions and when the employers couldn't renew his contract for whatever reason, many of them helped a lot in him getting to the next step).
His last contract ran out and, for once, no one could line him up with his next gig. I had a job offer that would mean we would have to move to another part of the country. Since he would soon be out of contact, it seemed like kind of a no-brainer and we moved for my work. The job I was offered could support us both indefinitely, so we decided he would take a year to get settled in the new area and really decide what he wanted in life. So he wouldn't have to rush and just take anything.
But one year became two, became three, became four. His old bosses gave him some contacts in the new area and he followed up on some but not others, but none of his attempts worked. He found very few jobs he felt he wanted to apply for. He would toy with the idea of re-training for a new career (which I think is a great idea), but when the time came to find the program or classes, he just never engaged. He would say he could learn what he needs on his own (which, theoretically, is certainly true) but then never did that either.
Now he is just living in a stage ennui and limbo. He knows that finding a job in his old field is becoming a long shot because he hasn't worked in so long. He can't really think of what he wants to do next or how to implement it. We are fine financially. The extra salary would be great, but it's not the main issue.
The main issue is that not having a job has turned my husband into a recluse and a miserable cynic. Every time we see people he doesn't know well (and some we do) we come home and have a fight about how he didn't like how I talked about something relating to his job situation, directly or indirectly. I feel like he is so sensitive about it, nothing I can do is right.
He absolutely DREADS the "so, what do you do?" questions, but with men, that's really hard to avoid, particularly at our age. I have relatives that always want to talk to him about it and he is so tired of it he basically never wants to see whole parts of my family again. Honestly, I don't think anyone judges him (particularly since he is so evasive in his answers that I am not sure they know what to judge), he just feels bad about it.
I find we are socializing less and less together, I am seeing my family less and less (particularly as a couple) and he has completely stopped having his own social life. He built himself a little home gym and media center and he seems content to stay home all day, every day, reading the news, watching movies, listening to music, and working out.
We still split the housework 50/50 since that was our original arrangement (with the idea that looking for a job was still a job and being employed doesn't automatically mean he has to do more shit work in the house). Now I work full-time, take care of my elderly mother (which he helps with, but it is still SO much work for me), and deal with quite a few medical issues.
I feel like I can't talk to him about picking up more of the slack with the household stuff because the job thing has become such a sore point with him he gets incredibly angry and offended right away. He has made it clear that he thinks I am the one in the good situation in life because I do have a job and all that it entails - the place to go, the social contacts, the identity, the satisfaction, and the feeling that it really is my money. (We share finances 100%, joint accounts all the way, joint ownership with everything.)
TL;DR - Unemployed husband is miserable. I'm OK that he doesn't have a job, we're OK, but he is unhappy and becoming a recluse and cutting me off my connections as well.
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2021.12.06 20:52 SaskAwatch Some how my schedule didnt work and my video came out at 1 am. 1.18 has changed minecraft soo much! However, I decided to make my new 1.18 a minigame hub for all the BOBers!
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2021.12.06 20:52 Tiib27 My guy Opa Opa
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2021.12.06 20:52 0K4M1 Why concrete has been moved from smelter to constructor ?
Concrete being heated limestone and clay, feels more logic it comes from smelters.... was it to give some use to constructors and alleviate the strain on on smelters (kinda like refineries with the packager?)
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2021.12.06 20:52 EnoughInteraction8 sketch from today
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2021.12.06 20:52 Familiar_Positive_37 [FREE FOR PROFIT] Posting 2 beats a day to help out artists free for profit, everyday (DAY 512/730 🔥)
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2021.12.06 20:52 gabiskyrim is normal going to gym everyday and still have depression?
hey, female, 24yr.
im going to gym everyday im super active, i take venlafaxine 150g everyday and ritalin 10g. but i still have depression crisis like suicide thoughts, thoughts of i wanted to disappear etc, i think about what'll happen with my family or friend after i die, I'll probably kill myself someday etc, I don't have a social life, i think now gym is the only thing i like and playing league of legends too.
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2021.12.06 20:52 Sanglewang Peter Jackson chooses his considerable film tech wizardry to remaster this thing of ours. What improvements and embellishments would you like to see?
And, please, the scene with post-mortem Nancy Marchand’s CGI Ghost Livia is too obvious. That entire scene needs to be an animated dream sequence.
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2021.12.06 20:52 thingstooverthink What would be the Defense Against the Dark Arts in a non-magical school?
2021.12.06 20:52 raybarbb Would anyone have any tips on how to write a personal statement for uni (creative writing course)?
I kind of left it to last minute until year 12 was completely over. Thought it would be an easy thing to write but now that I'm trying to do it I'm stuck. Your supposed to write about a page worth of things on there but I have no clue what to put in.
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2021.12.06 20:52 clinicskeleton Me_irl
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2021.12.06 20:52 Scojam92 How do I unlock the strongest Elite Four rematch?
I’ve beaten the Elite Four twice but when I go back for the second rematch, they haven’t got a stronger team. They were stronger than the first time, but Cynthia didn’t have the level 88 Garchomp. I’ve got the National Dex but I’m not sure what else I’m missing or what I’m doing wrong. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
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2021.12.06 20:52 Possible_Abrocoma_22 Abetz: Australia must follow US and diplomatically boycott Beijing Winter Olympics
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2021.12.06 20:52 IronMan1591 What does 'Queer' mean in the context of 'LGBTQ'?
I understand it used to be a slur for 'homosexual' and some people still consider it one, but how does the non-slur usage work? Does it mean something specific or just a vague term for 'not 100% straight'?
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2021.12.06 20:52 whatsinaname1970 The Morning Show characters are just as disappointing as anyone else.
2021.12.06 20:52 exctdpnd Какво работите и колко ви плащат? (Българско издание)
2021.12.06 20:52 astevko What causes null python version in pypi download stats?
My automl product has large spikes of PyPI downloads attributed to null python version.
Are these spikes attributed to real people downloading or it is some kind of robot getting in the way of seeing real downloads?
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2021.12.06 20:52 Possible_Abrocoma_22 Australia pursuing diplomatic boycott of Beijing Olympics the ‘logical outcome’
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2021.12.06 20:52 karmagheden Batya Ungar-Sargon: CNN FIRED Cuomo For MeToo OVERREACH, No Accountability For NY Nursing Homes
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2021.12.06 20:52 Imthemaincharacter- Why did the chicken cross the road?
2021.12.06 20:52 poopybuttttttttttt Board of Trustees Meeting
Per Jody Demling: The U of L Board of Trustees is "not taking any action at this time" on any matters. And the meeting is adjourned.
So that was anticlimactic. I really dont want this stuff to end up being dragged out. And this BOT meeting was meant to clear some things up, but Tyra's future is still up in the air for now.
I want to get off Mr. Bones wild ride.
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2021.12.06 20:52 SetMau92 Special session of the Arkansas Legislature to begin Tuesday | The primary legislation to be considered will be Gov. Asa Hutchinson's tax cut proposal, but lawmakers have suggested critical race theory and abortion-related bills could also be introduced.
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2021.12.06 20:52 silverfern88 My (33M) wife (32F) says she is “fine” but I don’t trust her. I’m discovering her true self and I am scared. Is she avoidant?
I am unhappy in my marriage and started therapy. In this journey I’ve discovered I have attachment issues: I try to be perfect and not myself, I don’t communicate my real needs and desires.
Working on this, I’ve started to have more open conversations with my wife. I suspect she is the avoidant type of person.
She considers “weak” as the worst adjective anyone can use against her. She is extremely proud of her independence in all aspects of life. She says she “needs” me but it doesn’t feel like it. She’s a convinced feminist.
She almost never wants to have sex. I can’t event remember the last time she suggested us having sex. We have a 1yo baby and things are more complicated now but it’s being a while.
Sex has never being great; I’ve even suspected that perhaps she is lesbian. I’ve always been unsatisfied but never rises my voice due to my attachment issues mentioned before.
Should I divorce? Should I find help in couples therapy? I suggested her therapy but she felt offended. She says she is in the greatest moment of his life professionally and personally. I’m probably in the worst moment of my life mentally speaking.
Any advice? I’m sorry about the unstructured bunch of information.
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